12/12/2023 12 Step Within Day In person

Join with other OAers to call as many OAers as we can reach in a fun get together. On December 12th from 12:00 – 1 PM.

Every December 12th, Overeater’s Anonymous groups and service boards around the world celebrate and plan events for Twelfth Step Within Day, a day to support the still-suffering compulsive eater within our Fellowship.

Join us for a special in-person meeting to commemorate Twelfth Step Within Day. The meeting will have some traditional elements as well as time set aside for outreach. Contact Stacey at 626-354-2334 for the address. If you would like more information on this special opportunity to carry the message please visit: oaregion8.org/committees/tsw.

2023 Twelfth Step Within Flyer

Saturday 15 weeks through 12 Steps Workshop

This is a closed workshop that meets two hours once a week on Saturdays from 4 PM to 6 PM Eastern beginning November 11, 2023. The introduction/orientation session is Saturday, November 11th and is the only open session to help you decide if you are ready to commit to the reading, writing and step work involved. Plan on spending two hours a week at the meeting and another two hours a week of outside step work. No one else will be able to join after November 11th. Meeting facilitation will be shared by the participants. Questions, text Alice at 919-247-1338. This is a wonderful way to be supported while going through all 12 steps leading to a spiritual awakening and freedom from compulsive eating and compulsive food behaviors. The workshop requires purchase of the green  Twelve Step Workshop and Study Guide, Second Edition 2nd edition.  You must be able to turn on your video at the beginning of the meeting so the host can verify you and turn your video on during the break out rooms and when sharing. If you are unable to meet the requirements of the workshop, please use another way to work the 12 steps.

                                           4 PM – 6 PM Eastern Time Saturdays  Click to Join Meeting   Meeting ID: 858 9767 9081 Passcode: 737773

If you are planning to attend, order the green workshop and study guide as soon as possible, as it may take 3 weeks to arrive.

The following OA- approved literature will be used in the workshop sessions and homework assignments: (You can get the literature from any source and many books are available as electronic books.) We have included links to the literature from the online bookstores at  OA and AA org.) You will need to bring the required literature to each zoom session.

Literature Used

               Twelve Step Workshop and Study Guide, Second Edition (oa.org)  15.00 (US), This is a Green Book. You can also get the participants guide if desired.

Required

OA Literature  

Twelve Step Workshop and Study Guide second edition,  Twelve Step Workshop and Study Guide, Second Edition (oa.org)  15.00 (US)

Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeater’s Anonymous Second Edition, $16.50, The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous, Second Edition book (oa.org)

Overeaters Anonymous, Third Edition, $16.50, Overeaters Anonymous, Third Edition (oa.org) mpg available.

Voices of Recovery, $13.50,  Voices of Recovery: A Daily Reader by Overeaters Anonymous  On 2/15/2022 this was out of stock but available as an e book.

For Today, $13.50, For Today book by Overeaters Anonymous (oa.org)

Required

AA literature

Alcoholic Anonymous, Fourth Edition (Big Book) $13.50 Alcoholics Anonymous, Fourth Edition (oa.org)

Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions by Alcoholics Anonymous $10.00  https://onlineliterature.aa.org/12-12-Soft-Cover

Recommended (pamphlets) (Many of these have been combined into a Newcomer Packet.

Tools of Recovery, #160

A Commitment to Abstinenance # 141

A Plan of Eating:  A tool for living, # 145

Dignity of Choice # 140

A Guide for Sponsors # 200

Sponsoring Through the 12 Steps # 220

7th Tradition: Recommended $30 paid to piedmontintergroup.org or oa.org.

Workshop Descriptions

Saturday Morning Workshops

10:30 – 11:50 Noon (80 minutes)

Enlarging your relationship with HP  

Ever wonder why you sometimes become unplugged or fumble with your communication with HP?  Want to dig deeper with enlarging your spiritual connection?  Together, in small groups and individually, we will look at false narratives and the truth that HP says about us as well as participating in written two-way prayer.  The goal of this workshop is to leave this retreat with a personal road map that will grow your personal relationship with your personal HP who loves you so much and who desires for you to live free of compulsive eating and compulsive eating behaviors.  Literature used in this session include OA’s Seeking a Spiritual Path Book and AA’s The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. (Porch near Fireside Lounge)

Exploring your relationship with other people.  

fIn this workshop we will look at how working the 12 steps and hearing the experience of others in OA literature and the group assists us in creating more harmonious, loving relationships with others and helps us live without eating compulsively.  We will review how a foundation in Steps 0 and 1, then 2 and 3, then 4 and 5, and finally 6 and 7 are vital to create relationships that are built in Steps 8 and 9, with maintenance of those relationships in Step 10. We will learn what our literature says can happen to us if we choose to live with defective relationships in our lives. We will hear stories of others about how our relationships become healthier as we become healthier. We will see the many ramifications of the slogan, “You spot it, you got it” as it applies to our relationships with others. Time will be reserved for questions of the group and open sharing.  (Assembly Hall)

Connecting our Environment to our Expectations      

In this workshop we will look at the power to change our relationships by changing our attitudes and expectations. Are we living in an environment of fear or resentment or are we practicing seeing the world and people in it with love and gratitude?  What are the glasses we wear to see the world around us?  We may read from For Today on Geographic Cure, March 6th, July 5th. AA Big Book, Acceptance is the Answer, VOR p. 100, p. 66 , Life Line. Energy, Plain and Simple.” (Gazebo by Dining Hall)

Saturday Afternoon Workshops

5:00 – 6:00 PM (60 Minutes)

Relating to Time  

In this workshop we will look at our relationship to time and how it affects our recovery from compulsive eating. Instead of procrastinating (waiting to be happy after achieving a goal weight or after ….,) we learn to live just for today. We clean up the past and learn patience waiting for intuitive guidance.  We discover that daily repetition of actions bring us recovery, what needs prompt action, how to wait for direction, how to continue taking inventory, seeking to improve our conscious contact. The literature has suggestions on what to do upon awakening and upon retiring and when agitated. We look at the difference a sense of urgency (usually self will) and HP’s time.  We may meditate, write, read the following stories …. Abstinence: Finding the Balance, For Today, February 9th (Fireside Lounge) 

Befriending Your Body  

In this workshop we will look at actions we can take to make right the harm we have done to our bodies by getting to know it. We may still our minds to feel our bodies. We may read and talk about stories from Body Image Book Reconnecting to My body, Working the 12 Steps on My Body Image, Embracing my body image , At Ease with my body, My God Box. (Assembly Hall )

Centering Our Relationships with Slogans

In this workshop we will get our creative juices flowing through journaling and an art project designed to help us strengthen our relationships with God, self, and others using OA slogans. We will also learn how to choose the best ones for our daily needs. We will receive a handout with dozens of OA slogans to choose from for the reminder we create to keep and apply to our lives to enhance our design for living. (Meeting Room 1)

Sunday Morning Workshops

9:50 – 10:50 AM (60 Minutes)

Creating Your Plan of Eating

One of the tools of OA is a Plan of eating. Sounds like a diet, doesn’t it? Wrong. Your food is just a small part of it. Where do you eat? When do you eat? What people and situations lead you to eat? How can you change your responses to them? What can you do if your disease continues to whisper in your ear? Do you have an emergency plan? In this workshop, we’ll look at ways to live abstinently with healthy eating behaviors. When you leave, you’ll have your own new Plan of Eating. It works when you work it!  (Meeting Room 1)

Loving You

 In this workshop we  hear how others practice self care, gentleness, kindness, self love, self acceptance. How they counter the voice of judgment, perfectionism. and shame (Should Have Already Mastered Everything). “We have learned that a complete willingness to make amends to ourselves and to forgive ourselves for past mistakes has been essential to our recovery. OA 12&12, p58-59  As we work the steps and become honest, we discover ourselves, we begin to forgive and love ourselves. This workshop looks at this process and the tools that help facilitate treating ourselves in a loving manner and what effect self love has on our relationships.  During this workshop we may look at Step 4-6, steps 8-9. “When we face the guilt that truthfully tells us you made a mistake, we are freed of the shame that tells us We are a mistake”. Possible readings include stories from Body Image, Relationships, and Sexuality: Accepting myself and others, Learning to Live with an Open Heart, VOR p.59,  213, 229, 242  New Beginnings Honesty, Trust and Action. (Fireside Lounge)

Leaning into and Becoming The Fellowship

In this workshop we will look at the power of the OA Fellowship and how it impacts all the relationships in our life. “I cherish my OA friends; because of them, all my relationships are improving.” (For Today, September 1)

 (Assembly Hall)